How to Use a Vibrator: Tips From Sex and Wellness Experts
The sex toy industry is unregulated—so, whether you’re shopping in person or online , it’s essential to seek out reputable retailers, says Dr. Berkheimer. The Lelo Gigi is a classic G-spot vibrator—and the latest version doesn’t disappoint. The ultra-quiet toy has a uniquely flattened tip that makes it easier to find and stimulate the hot spot.
Unlike your classic vibrator, which usually features a rumbly motor, these innovative toys utilize clit-sucking air pulsations rather than (or in tandem with) vibrations. This one fits nearly-effortlessly between two fingers, and is great for focusing vibration onto sensitive hotspots like the clit, nipples viberator, or taint. I love this toy as someone who has chronic pain in my hands, because it’s easy for me to keep a grip on, even when my pain is flaring up.
Whether you’re new to vibrators or want to add to your toy collection, these are some of the best vibrator styles and models you can buy today. This device—with its sleek, ergonomic body—simulates (really good) oral sex via waves and pulses of air. Its widened mouth makes it perfect for use on other erogenous zones. If you plan on vibing with a partner, opt for the Divvy, a device controlled by a remote control that can be used at a distance up to 30 (yes, you read that right) feet.
The external part of the clitoris (what we see) is just a fraction of its entire size, with around 90 percent of it laying beneath the surface. The internal structures of the clitoris extend down to either side of the vagina, which is where you’ll find the G-spot—the area stimulated by toys that curve toward the front of your body. According to Sara Kloepfer of sex and wellness brand Bellesa, nonporous materials don’t let bacteria through and are generally easy to clean.
“It is very soft and I love how it’s curved to fit,” one reviewer on the Dame website wrote. “This is my first vibrator so I would say it is beginner-friendly and works well.” Last but not least, Love Triangle was the smallest and by far most discreet of the various Satisfyer toys I tried out. Whisper quiet, it’s another air pulsing, pressure wave toy that stimulates your clitoris (or nipples, follow your heart!) along with a subtle vibration function. It’s again not necessarily the tiniest and most intuitive to place for hands-free play but is easily the MVP for travel — coming with a sweet little cap to store it cleanly and quietly on-the-go.